How to Get the Most Out Strap-On Sex: 7 Tips

How to Get the Most Out Strap-On Sex: 7 Tips

Strap-on sex, also known as pegging, is a sexual activity that involves one partner wearing a strap-on dildo to penetrate their partner anally or vaginally. This type of sex can be a fun and exciting way to explore new sensations and power dynamics in the bedroom. In this blog post, I’ll provide tips and advice on how to enjoy strap-on sex safely and with plenty of pleasurable.

Strap-on sex is a great way to bond with your partner. This photo shows illustrations of sex toys including strap-on harnesses for pegging
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Tips for Strap-On Sex

1. It doesn’t start and end with a dildo and a harness: communication is critical to strap-on sex.

As with any sexual activity, communication is essential, and the act should be discussed before play. Talk with your partner about your desires, boundaries, and expectations before trying strap-on sex. Discuss what you both enjoy and what you’re not comfortable with. Make sure you’re on the same page before getting started.

2. Choose the right equipment for strap-on sex.

Choosing a suitable strap-on ( review) equipment (review) is crucial for a pleasurable experience (review). Consider the size, shape, and material of the dildo and the harness or strap-on system. Make sure the equipment is comfortable and fits securely. If you’re a beginner, you may want to start with a smaller dildo (review) and a more straightforward harness.

3. Use plenty of lube.

Using plenty of lube is essential for comfortable and safe strap-on sex. The anus doesn’t naturally produce enough lubrication for penetration, so you must add lube to reduce friction and prevent tearing (lube shooters are a fantastic way to get the lube all up in there). Choose a water-based lubricant and apply it generously, especially if the toy goes in someone’s ass.

4. Start slow and gentle

When you’re ready to try strap-on sex, start slow and gentle. Begin with some light touch and kissing, and gradually work up to penetration. Use plenty of lube and start with shallow thrusts to allow your partner to adjust to the sensations (or fuck them silly from the start). Listen to your partner’s feedback and adjust your movements accordingly.

5. Experiment with different positions.

Strap-on sex can be enjoyed in various positions, so don’t be afraid to experiment and find what works best for you and your partner. Some popular positions include doggy style, missionary, and cowgirl. You may also want to try different angles and depths of penetration to find what feels best. There are water-resistant sex furniture options out there to assist with positions.

6. Practice good hygiene.

To prevent the spread of STIs and other infections, practice good hygiene during sex. Wash the dildo and harness before and after use to prevent the spread of bacteria. Silicone is a body-safe material, and you can’t go wrong with that.

7. The receiving partner isn’t the only one who can get pleasure from strap-on sex.

In the wild, the sex toy industry, there are many toys like strapless strap-ons or grinders for the partner to thrust against. Get creative!

Overall

Have Fun!

Strap-on sex can be a fun and exciting way to explore new sensations and power dynamics in the bedroom. Remember to communicate with your partner, choose the right equipment, use plenty of lube, start slow and gentle, experiment with different positions, and practice good hygiene. These tips allow you to enjoy a pleasurable and safe strap-on sex experience.

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