I’ve Reviewed a lot of dildos in my 11 years of sex toy reviewing, most of which are harness-compatible. Compatibility with a harness is something I look for because it can offer more partner-play options and gender-affirming attire. Sometimes we use them to fuck our partner; sometimes, we use them to feel sexy by having our partners take the entire dildo down their throat. The possibilities with harness-compatible dildos are vast and are essential for a toy chest.
Even before I was with a woman, I was enthralled by the possibilities that harness-compatible sex toys offered. When I became a reviewer, I would whip out my Joque, strap on a dick, and walk around waving that big ol’ thing swingin’. As I so eloquently said in my Neo Elite review: “I get so excited for toys with flared bases because not only can it go in my butt, I can strap it on with it and wield it as my appendage!“
Life is tough and expensive, but not everything has to be that way. While I have some more expensive strap-on dildos, and they are worth their money, I wanted to put together a list accessible to most users. My all-time favorite harnesses are the Joque & Deuce, but they are on the higher cost spectrum. Remember, lube is queen!
Look at my favorite affordable strap-on, harness-compatible dildos in no particular order.
Table Of Contents
Recommendations: Buy Harness Compatible Dildos
Spareparts Joque & Deuce
I have two all-time favorites that are not cheap but must be mentioned. The Joque harness was the first I ever tried, and I fucking loved it.
Buy the Joque Peepshow Toys | Betty’s Toy Box | Lovehoney
Harnesses for People with Penises
The Deuce is the counterpart to the Joque and is marketed as a “male harness,” which is unfortunate. I threw away the packaging before she saw that it said “male harness.” I bought it for my wife, and we love it. It makes penetration enjoyable without her experiencing body dysmorphia.
Buy the Deuce Peepshow Toys | Betty’s Toy Box | Lovehoney
Brief Harnesses For Packing & Playing
Strap-on dildos and harnesses are a great addition to your playbox. Aside from Joque and Deuce, they are my favorite harnesses. They’re easy to use and suitable for packing. The only downside is that they don’t hold the toy as firmly in place as other traditional harnesses. Strapon dildos and harnesses can completely change your sex play.
Temptasia Brief Harness Peepshow Toys | Betty’s Toy Box
Similar options:
Brief Harness at Lovehoney
Spareparts Tomboi Peepshow Toys | Betty’s Toy Box
Harness-Compatible Dildos
1. Neo Elite Dual-Density Glow-in-the-Dark
The Neo Elite ( Review) was a favorite until I unboxed it. Its squishy outer layer of silicone was pleasing to the touch, and the damn thing glows in the dark, all sorts of cool. I’ve found recently that I’m not particularly drawn to a realistic dildo over a general dick shape; other people are, so this semi-realistic dildo is fresh air. You can fetishize it as a dick, while others who aren’t into that much realism can be comfortable with the dildo generally shaped like a dick. There are no balls, so the Neo Elite slips smoothly into your chosen harness.
Buy These Toys
Neo Elite Omnia | Babeland | Peepshow Toys | Good Vibrations
Similar Options
Neo Elite Tao | Babeland | Good Vibrations | Peepshow Toys
Lovehoney | Glow-in-the-Dark Dildo
Neo Elite Marquee Peepshow Toys | Betty’s Toy Box | Good Vibrations | Babeland
2. Blush Avant D15: Visions of Love
Blush Novelties makes some of my favorite toys. I love the Avant D15 (review) for its size. It’s thin and short and beautifully colored. The Avant D15 makes for an excellent pegging or starter toy and is the perfect size for my (medically) tight pelvic floor.
Buy the Blush Avant D15: Visions of Love
Avant D15 | Peepshow Toys | Good Vibrations | Babeland
Similar Options
Avant Beauty Pride Peepshow Toys | Betty’s Toy Box | Babeland | Good Vibrations
Rainbow Silicone 5″ Dildo | Lovehoney
3. Lifelike Lover
The Lifelike Lover Lux line from Lovehoney has endless patterns and colors. From color-changing dildos to cow-like striped dildos, the Lifelike Lux has options galore. I loved this dildo because not only is it harness-compatible, but it also has a suction cup base. On top of that, the shape is perfect and not-overwhelming for anal and vaginal penetration.
Lifelike Lover Review | Buy from Lovehoney Multicolored | Lovehoney Color-Changing
Similar Options in Various Sizes
Ns Novelties Yum Yum Peepshow Toys | Babeland | Betty’s Toy Box | Good Vibrations
4. Vamp
The Tantus Vamp did not start as my favorite toy. It still isn’t. However, it’s praised among bloggers and highly affordable in many online shops like Peepshow Toys and Betty’s Toy Box. While it’s unsuitable for my body because of how large the head is, it’s a quality toy. Additionally, the smaller base is great for anal. It comes in “soft” too, which accommodates my needs. I’d be remiss if I didn’t add the Vamp to the list.
Tantus Vamp (Review) | Betty’s Toy Box | Tantus | Peepshow Toys
5. Nexus Hux
The Nexus Hux is a more enormous dildo that packs a punch and fits beautifully in a harness
Nexus Hux (Review) | Betty’s Toy Box
6. Vixen Creations Maverick
The Maverick is significantly larger than the Mustang, which appeals to many people. While I used to be able to use it, my pelvic floor has tightened too much to accommodate the Maverick. However, that could be a positive sign of what you’re looking for. Dual-density toys are a fan favorite (of both myself, bloggers, and all y’all), and the Maverick is incredibly realistic.
Maverick | Peepshow Toys | Betty’s Toy Box | Lovehoney | Good Vibrations | Babeland
7. Colours Rainbow Dildo
This is one of the first dildos I used with my wife and a favorite of mine. I love the rainbow option, and although it’s a little larger than I’d like, I can take it with a proper warmup. Although it has balls and doesn’t work as well with the Joque harness as, say, a Temptasia harness, it’s still an excellent toy for strap-on sex.
But it at Peepshow Toys | Betty’s Toy Box | Good Vibrations | Babeland
Similar Options
Rainbow Dildo at Lovehoney
8. Vixen Creations Mustang
While the Mustang is rather pricey for a dildo, it’s an excellent choice. I always turn to the Mustang for warmup, and the dual density is delicious. It’s realistic in both feel and appearance, and it is the right size for my body and many others. It’s a blogger favorite.
Mustang | Peepshow Toys | Betty’s Toy Box | Lovehoney | Good Vibrations | Babeland
9. Helio
The Real Nude Helio is a softer, excellent toy for harness play. It’s not too large, though it does have a sizeable head. I love it because of the suction cup base and the ease with which it can be used in a harness. Because it is a softer toy, it is a tad bit more flimsy than the Avant D15, but it is still worth mentioning. I love that it comes in a few different colors and how comfortable it is with my too-tight vagina.
Peepshow Toys | Helio
Similar Options for Soft Dildos
Lovehoney – Rainbow Soft | Peepshow Toys – Echo SuperSoft They/Them Soft | Tantus – Adam Soft Curve Soft
10. Avant P8
As of posting this, I haven’t published a review of the Avant P8. However, I’ve used it and love it. It’s similar to the Avant D15 but is slightly thinner and much longer. The ball-less base and suction cup allows for all sorts of fun-fucking and make it perfect for both pegging and vaginal penetration. It’s a quality silicone dildo that has to be mentioned.
Buy it at Peepshow Toys | Betty’s Toy Box | Babeland | Good Vibrations
Similar options
Avant Pride Line | Peepshow Toys | Betty’s Toy Box | Babeland | Good Vibrations
Bonus: Strapless Strap-Ons
Strapless Strap-Ons is another fantastic option. They can be used with a harness (the latter of which I prefer).
Lovehoney Vibrating Strapless Strap-On
Feeldoe (My first strapless strap-on!) | Peepshow Toys
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